Morning guys
I was up late last night discussing the fact that my sister smokes and the reason she's doing it (helps her overcome the urge to self harm). Fun times. When my parents found out she was smoking they turned the situation over to me and told me to do whatever I thought was best which includes me letting her smoke in the garden without having to try and hide it from me or my parents, buying her cigarettes when she needs them instead of getting a friend to do so and helping her work out what her underlying problems are.

I really enjoy helping people in this way (and previous experience suggests I'm good at it) but I've no idea whether or not I could make a change to counselling or even how to go about it if I could. Perhaps I'll look into it sometime when I've finished making my sister cry by showing her my scars...
( Captain V, Wed 11 Mar 2009, 10:32, Reply)