first the obligatory "Man the FUCK up!"
Now for hopefully something that helps.

Question - have you asked your partner about all this? tried talking to him about it in a calm and expressive way? I mean I'm sure you know how to get a point across but what I mean is - if you're talking about it - do you say "She always/never" or "You always/never"? Just cos that'll make him get defensive (she is his daughter after all) and start fights when maybe this could be solved by talking it all through and working out how to fix it.

Have you tried talking to *her* about it either? Maybe you should - it wouldn't be interfering because it is YOUR relationship she is fucking up. I don't know if you have tried already or not but that's just the first two avenues I'd go down.

If you have already tried all that - and nothing's helping, look at how it's making you feel. You're angry and hurt and depressed and that's not good. No relationship is worth sacrificing your sanity for. Sorry if that sounds harsh but that's what I genuinely believe. You are a lovely, kind, beautiful, caring woman and you don't need this shit.

And if you want an internet hug - here you go *big squishy hugs*
Feel free to gaz me to vent.
(Poppet some assembly required., Thu 7 May 2009, 4:10, Reply)