Hmm, it's a bit strange
But basically, I have a lot of bad luck finding people interested in me in the usual/frankly desired way. So I have Pets. They're boys, usually younger than me, though not always, who I'm very close to, intimate, cuddly, tactile, but not in a sexual way. I just stroke them and tell them they're pretty and let them sleep on me. And, like cats, they can scratch or just tell you to bugger off. But it's a certain type of relationship. The current one is capitalised, but I've had more than one that have become feral/bored with me.

The Ex was incredibly creeped out. As would be quite a few people. But I'm getting precious little romantic love, so I've got the boy "who I'd role play Oedipus Rex" with :)
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Sat 30 May 2009, 21:07, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

From my point of view
Nothing to be creeped out about there, and it's what some boys want - just someone to curl up on. So long as you're happy, all is good (and you should see the girl my girlfriend will be sleeping on tonight!)
(Potty Jag har smör i min rumpspringa, Sat 30 May 2009, 22:29, Reply)

It depends really
The whole thing of ownership freaked him out. Which is weird, as he's a bit of a sub, but you know.
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Sat 30 May 2009, 22:36, Reply)

There are sub's and there are subs.
Some (most, to be honest) just want it as a bit of bedroom fun and can't handle it, or anything that might occur outside of two people. Nothing wrong with a bit of a cuddle in the way you are, but some people just don't get it. People are strange.
(Potty Jag har smör i min rumpspringa, Sat 30 May 2009, 22:54, Reply)