Maybe it's not about the lack of texting
I'm getting the feeling it's really about something else. Maybe she'd already decided to end it but used your lack of hello-ing as an excuse. Or maybe she was unsure, and tested you by waiting for a hello as her final decider. Maybe she's impossible, and therefore there was nothing you could do. Or maybe you'd neglected her in other ways and this row was the manifestation. Any of that possible?
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Tue 16 Jun 2009, 19:51, 1 reply, 17 years ago)

maybe the last two
like i mentioned, this has sort of come up before, in other ways. i think in the long term it's a mismatch in outlook, in that i'm much more laid back in terms of communication with other people. i'm by no means a social outcast, but left to my own devices i tend not to ring people and just do stuff on my own.

also given that i have more free time than her (we both have a child, but mine doesn't live with me while hers does) and do particular musical things on the same days each week, means that the times i do go to see her end to get a bit routine and i get accused of only ringing her when i'm doing anything else. which is never what i intended.
(beanojam isn't really Ricardo Flange, Tue 16 Jun 2009, 20:01, Reply)

Sounds like a mis-match then
It does just seem like you both have different values, but you weren't actively bad. Do you want her back? Do you love her enough to transform the way you communicate, and your attitude to keeping in touch?
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Tue 16 Jun 2009, 20:07, Reply)

at this point
i don't even know any more. it's too close.
(beanojam isn't really Ricardo Flange, Tue 16 Jun 2009, 20:10, Reply)

ha ha ha,
love it.
(PsychoChomp, Tue 16 Jun 2009, 20:11, Reply)