hmmm
well this is just the latest manifestation of a recurring issue. i suspect it's not a dumping offence on its own but combined with previous problems...

of course this does put more of the blame on me, because knowing she was sensitive to this sort of thing, I should have made sure I did something about it.
(beanojam isn't really Ricardo Flange, Tue 16 Jun 2009, 20:08, 1 reply, 17 years ago)

Well she could have always called or texted you
so you're equally to blame then if we're apportioning blame
( fuck shit up the best you never had, Tue 16 Jun 2009, 20:14, Reply)

yes, i accept that
but as i said somewhere up there, i'm not trying to blame either of us, i was just after opinions about the particular situation. it's rather snowballed into something a bit soap-opera-esque now, which has kind of taken me by surprise, given that most of the time i have nothing to say on either OT or QOTW...
(beanojam isn't really Ricardo Flange, Tue 16 Jun 2009, 20:22, Reply)

You said just above my reply that you felt you were more to blame, so I was reassuring you that it takes two sometime

( fuck shit up the best you never had, Tue 16 Jun 2009, 20:33, Reply)

oh i see
thanks :)
(beanojam isn't really Ricardo Flange, Tue 16 Jun 2009, 20:35, Reply)