A couple per day?
Really? If you're both enjoying different holidays? If you always send each other lots of texts and are that kind of couple then that might be really nice. But hypothetically, I wouldn't EXPECT someone to take time out twice a day to update me or even say hi. Maybe that's where I'm going wrong. Maybe my whole approach to relationships is skewed!
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Tue 16 Jun 2009, 20:12, 2 replies, latest was 17 years ago)

After a year and a half, you come to expect certain things
not checking up on each other at all, but just saying hi, this is what I'm up to.
( fuck shit up the best you never had, Tue 16 Jun 2009, 20:13, Reply)

Hmmm
I don't think that would work for me. I'd feel like a pest if I text that often from holiday - even more so after a year and a half than in the first frantic flush. But like I say, I'm probably not normal.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Tue 16 Jun 2009, 20:16, Reply)

then i'm not normal either
yes, if it was early on, but not after 18 months.
(beanojam isn't really Ricardo Flange, Tue 16 Jun 2009, 20:18, Reply)

see, that's where i agree with you
i wasn't expecting her to text me. she was on holiday in france with her son! to a certain extent i felt it wasn't my business. we'd just compare notes when we got back...
(beanojam isn't really Ricardo Flange, Tue 16 Jun 2009, 20:15, Reply)