Yep. Sounds strangely familiar.
It sounds like she's keeping her options open, maybe she wants the possibility that you'd be there if her current shag deserts her, and that she can get you back, or maybe she just likes the idea of more than one bloke showing interest in her. I understand the idea that you're greiving over the idea you had of her before all the shit hit the fan as well.

In all honesty, and speaking from some experiance, the best thing to do is just break off all contact with her, oh, and feel free to keep her contact details written down at home somewhere, but make damn sure that you delete them from your phone. You realy, realy don't want to be calling her drunk. Oh, and don't post her details here, or try to get revenge. Firstly, you loose whatever moral high ground you had over her in the first place, and possibly the loss of respect from your friends and secondly revenge, once you've taken it just feels kind of hollow.

So yes, though I'm pretty certain you already know all this but probably need some sort of comfirmation that it's the better thing to do, break off contact, don't seek revenge, don't text or call her pissed and also, see how you manage on your own for a bit before getting involved with anyone else. Best advice I can offer. Here's hoping you learn from some of the mistakes I've made.
(Fredz A graveyard of hopes, a dump of ambition, Sat 4 Jul 2009, 12:43, Reply)