my Missus lies a lot
but it's not malicious - she's just delusional and when the lie is pointed out to her, she laughs like a little girl that knows she has been caught - it's gas.

Knowing this about her makes her easier to manage.
(bazmorningstar efil4nat3b, Tue 22 Sep 2009, 16:16, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

lies in a "I'm wearing a green shirt" kind of way when she's clearly wearing purple?
It's all really new, we're not technically together and it annoys me that when it's so fresh he's going to be dumb, what happens when it comes to the important stuff?
edit: I'm not literally asking, I'm just saying. Just putting that out there, etc
( Lisette von Falcon, Tue 22 Sep 2009, 16:18, Reply)

she says she has done things I have asked her to do
then she dashes off and does them before I find out kind of way...

If you're not techically together and he's already bullshitting then the whole thing sounds like a farce.

How long have you not technically been together?

Is there a third party involved?
(bazmorningstar efil4nat3b, Tue 22 Sep 2009, 16:21, Reply)

ohh, that's not too bad then eh? would be nice if she just did it instead of lying?
not technically been together for a few weeks but we were the same way for a few months at the beginning of the year.
At the time he had a girlfriend, to which he said it wasn't lying because I didn't ask.
Which makes me quite pathetic and stupid for talking to him now probably.
( Lisette von Falcon, Tue 22 Sep 2009, 16:26, Reply)

sounds like he's just being a tosser really
doesn't much care what happens, so why not lie sort of thing.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 22 Sep 2009, 16:24, Reply)

betcha
there's a third party involved.
(bazmorningstar efil4nat3b, Tue 22 Sep 2009, 16:24, Reply)

I bet it's the BNP

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 22 Sep 2009, 16:25, Reply)

nah man..
betcha she's nicked him off another bird.
(bazmorningstar efil4nat3b, Tue 22 Sep 2009, 16:26, Reply)

oooo
the wily minx
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 22 Sep 2009, 16:27, Reply)

YESYESYESYES
I win!

Told you there was another bird, Vipros!

Kristine darlin' - dude is conditioned to lie - either you learn to manage him or ditch him.
(bazmorningstar efil4nat3b, Tue 22 Sep 2009, 16:29, Reply)

I bow to your sleuthing skills
and would gladly offer my services as your sidekick should you decide to become a 19th century detective
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 22 Sep 2009, 16:30, Reply)

haha I didn't steal him! I told him to fuck off because I wasn't going to be his girlfriend on the side. And we didn't talk for 7 months.
oh I'll just stop talking now because the more I say the more I realise how dumb I really am for talking to him

besides, how can you manage a person?
( Lisette von Falcon, Tue 22 Sep 2009, 16:32, Reply)

Easy!
You prey on their weaknesses and force them to depend on you.

Are you a woman or what?
(bazmorningstar efil4nat3b, Tue 22 Sep 2009, 16:35, Reply)

or you convince them that what you want them to do is what they want to do
I prefer to think of it as persuasion.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 22 Sep 2009, 16:36, Reply)

this happens a lot in relationships I find
as women very seldom have minds of their own.
(bazmorningstar efil4nat3b, Tue 22 Sep 2009, 16:39, Reply)

I'm fortunate in that I'm very persuasive
and hugely opinionated :-D
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 22 Sep 2009, 16:47, Reply)