not sure whether one of us is slightly misunderstanding something here
my view is that if someone likes you, no matter how much, and nothing has happened previously then you have no responsibility to them at all. it is entirely their own issue. Once something has happened, if it is still casual there is a little responsibility there, but still not much. once it is something proper then sleeping with an ex is very much a no-no

edit: that makes more sense
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:48, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

yeah
I think I agree.
I wonder if she knew he was a cunt and went ahead anyway though.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:50, Reply)

that would be a typical woman thing to do
several times in my youth I was in a position where I liked a girl, we got on really well and had a bit of a snog and stuff, but ultimately they would prefer to go out with some cunt, who they know is a useless cunt.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:51, Reply)

I made it clear to her that he was a cunt before anything happend,
she ignored me.
(PsychoChomp, Mon 5 Oct 2009, 13:53, Reply)