Oh my good lord.
'Get over it and move on'? Forgive me for expressing an opinion that goes against the grain of using b3ta as a personal fucking counselling service.

Of course I pick and choose what I read. And of course I sympathise that people have problems. But what I do think is that soliciting advice (often psychological) from untrained people is counter productive, and different to asking for advice about what to do about failed relationships or what to have for tea.

It's good that there's a community on b3ta, and I've made some great friends on here, but I draw the line at airing my dirty laundry online, on the internet. Once again, this is my personal opinion. Although I expect I should get over that as well.
( Devil_In_Tights the *real* DiT!, Thu 8 Oct 2009, 23:24, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

People come on here all the time complaining about one thing or another.
Oh what a shit day I've had.

What did you have for dinner.

This fucker cut me up the other day and I'm livid.

None of it is comedic and so if some folk go a bit deeper that you'd like. At the end of the day what does it matter?

It's all about venting and getting stuff of your chest and not finding answers from a bunch of strangers.
( girlinthehole, Thu 8 Oct 2009, 23:28, Reply)

If it's complaing about the same thing every single day then it gets a bit tiresome is all
Not singling you out here BGB as you're certainly not the only one to do it. I know i've done it in the past to an extent. But when people do it, it makes me skip posts and ignore others because there is only so much whining I can read before I get bored.
( fuck shit up the best you never had, Thu 8 Oct 2009, 23:33, Reply)