I said the same thing to my friend
they are being stupid and petty and need to grow the fuck up.

he's moved on so there's no reason for them not to. I don't know the circumstances of how you got together, but assuming there wasn't any cheating or anything going on when he and she were still together there is definitely no cause for them to be such wankers.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 11 May 2010, 14:34, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

They think
We went together too soon, and should have waited longer for her to feel better. That's why they hate me.

Apart from one, who hates me because I'm Spanish and her ex-husband left her for a younger, prettier Spaniard.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Tue 11 May 2010, 14:38, Reply)

ridiculous
maintaining a spiteful petty hatred because you and your bf acted in a way that didn't meet their approval.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 11 May 2010, 14:41, Reply)

And the ex left HIM
So why the fuck did he have to wait for HER to be ok???
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Tue 11 May 2010, 14:43, Reply)

that makes it even worse

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 11 May 2010, 14:48, Reply)

What makes it worse
Is the fact that the bf has had to stop doing things with his mates only because they don't like me.

I understand why he gets upset. He's not upset with me, he's upset at the situation. If it's only boys going out, everything is great. If there are girls invited, he's asked to stay at home or go without me. It's not fair on him either.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Tue 11 May 2010, 14:57, Reply)

that really sucks
you have my sympathy

when my mrs met my friends it was at a fancy dress party. I had made her dress up as dangermouse. it went well.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 11 May 2010, 15:07, Reply)

Nice on you!
And thanks. It's not really as bad as it sounds, most of the time we don't think much about it and go out with his mates.

Today it's being difficult, and I foresee a long night of talking, but I should be ok tomorrow.

Give time to time, it always works.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Tue 11 May 2010, 15:09, Reply)