my male colleagues still don't know I'm engaged
and one even asked where I'd been for the past 8 months when I got back from maternity leave. And I'm not your quiet retiring sort - I talk. A lot. males = not very observant. developers = even less observant.
( ascorbate, Tue 1 Jun 2010, 11:24, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

Yep, I think something like that will happen here too
I'm not too bother, I've been working with them for 5 years and know how bad they are.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Tue 1 Jun 2010, 11:37, Reply)

I suspect
that when they do notice, they'll be a bit nonplussed, offer some sort of congratulations, then get on with business as usual.

It's the male way.
( K2k6 has a proper job these days, Tue 1 Jun 2010, 11:52, Reply)

I suspect
When they notice, they don't know for how long it's being like that and prefer not to say anything so they don't look stupid.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Tue 1 Jun 2010, 12:06, Reply)