with further explanation it seems less so
I would've used something more appropriate but the words weren't forthcoming
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 17:12, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

slutty isn't a great word to use about anyone
sleeping with people doesn't make you a slut, and it's not a word that's commonly used about men who sleep around. And the point about drunkeness doesn't stand up. Depression plus alcohol does result in poor decisions that would not happen otherwise

/sorry for lecture mode
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 17:15, Reply)

clearly things were more complicated than it first seemed.
I'm about as non-judgemental as it gets (except when it comes to stupid people and shit music) and I offer my apologies if it came across that way. The fact of it is that drunk people being out of control of their actions (beyond a certain "this silly thing is a good idea" point) has always puzzled me as I've basically never experienced being like that. Even in my days as a hardened drinker.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 17:25, Reply)

:) I'm cool with that
I'm very lucky. Like you I remain relatively aware of myself and my actions when drunk, and I've never done anything I've had to regret. But I do understand people who don't have that control, and who do end up in situations beyond their control.
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 15 Jun 2010, 17:31, Reply)