It's ok, it was years ago so I'm over it now.
You're right though Roota, I honestly don't think of him as A Rapist, even though I've known him to take the advantage when he can. It just wasn't worth it for what happened and I hate these girls who sleep with someone when they're drunk and then claim they were spiked and raped and blah blah blah, I think it's kind of insulting to people who are genuinely raped and it dilutes the seriousness of it. It's women crying false rape that make people question real rape and then it's harder to convict proper scum bags. This guy was just a horny loser who didn't care if I found him disgusting or not.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Mon 21 Jun 2010, 11:55, 1 reply, 14 years ago)

^This
Been in a similar situation.
Grey area. Not worth further hassle and humiliation.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 21 Jun 2010, 11:57, Reply)

yeah half of me didn't want to tell anyone
that he'd had his naked penis anywhere near me. Ick.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Mon 21 Jun 2010, 12:03, Reply)