I wouldn't want to have kids on the basis that I might be surprised at how well I deal with it
on a more practical note, even if we were to have them, we couldn't afford them any time soon. My mortgage is fucking enormous and I don't have enough cash for my liking anyway.

I'd rather not have them than bring them into a household where we can't afford to do anything because of them. That's a shitty recipe for resentment.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 14:50, Reply)