Can't stop long, but I'll say this
It's time for the "Look, Helen, this isn't working out. You've tried and it's not happening. No big deal. Other kinds of exercise and dance are out there. This IS really difficult and you don't seem happy. Also, my classes aren't just about turning up and doing pole when it's your turn. It's about participating and it's about your outlook. The way you feel, well I'm concerned it's having an effect on the rest of the class. I'd prefer it if you either joined in, or faced your feelings and stopped coming."
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 2 Sep 2010, 9:16, 2 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

Needs more GBH

(PsychoChomp, Thu 2 Sep 2010, 9:23, Reply)

that's a good bit about participating, I never thought of saying that to her.
I'm going to a party on Saturday night and she'll be there, maybe I can try and have a quiet word with her away from the rest of the group. I worry that I'll make her feel bad if she thinks I'm kicking her out for being rubbish, but she doesn't give a shit about my feelings in all this so I'll try and be brave, thanks Aunty Roota!
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 2 Sep 2010, 9:53, Reply)