Oi Blousie!
I'm dishing out free advice here. Not just free advice either. GOOD free advice.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 14:16, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

I don't want Berk making the same mistakes I made.
Being nice and considerate gets you nowhere.
( girlinthehole, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 14:18, Reply)

I don't know about that.
I'm still promised to you am I not?

I thought the tattoo proved that.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 14:19, Reply)

Tattoos can be lazered off sunshine.

( girlinthehole, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 14:20, Reply)

Scars run deep though Blousie.

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 14:21, Reply)

Hence my change in demeanour towards the opposite sex.

( girlinthehole, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 14:23, Reply)

sadly this is pretty much true
Blousie is right- don't contact him. Certainly don't mother him :S
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 14:19, Reply)

I can't believe I'm being told I'm wrong!
I'm simply suggesting a text to say 'sorry you're ill, drop me a line when you feel brighter' is better than eating cake, not contacting him and needing girly-chats.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 14:21, Reply)

He's let her down twice
the onus is now on him to initiate contact
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 14:22, Reply)

See my reply just below.

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 14:22, Reply)

I'm not going to
he can simmer for a bit. If he wants to see me, he can damn well ask. And nicely, after letting me down twice!
(berk, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 14:21, Reply)

I didn't realise this was the second time.
I thought tonight was the first scheduled meeting.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 14:22, Reply)

No, I was supposed to see him last wednesday
but he cancelled because he was tired, working funny shifts apparently. So it was rescheduled for today, and now he has man flu. A little bit of grovelling now on his part wouldn't go amiss, don't you think?
(berk, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 14:25, Reply)

I agree.
Have some more cake.

Sorry, I thought this was the first time you were meeting, therefore slack needed to be cut.

As it is, you're right.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 14:26, Reply)

for realz
whats the point in trying to set something up when you're just going to get stood up, it makes you feel like a fool
( Lisette von Falcon, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 14:24, Reply)

It does
hence why I'm going to wait for him to contact me. Either he does, and if he stands me up again it's three strikes and out, or he doesn't, in which case meh, no real loss.
(berk, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 14:26, Reply)