Hey.
berk - it is the unfortunately part of any relationship.

Feel sad by all means, but don't feel bad. YOU and you alone can make yourself happy and if you think you and the ex had gone the distance, you are to be praised for taking action.

Too many relationship drift with no direction. In the long-term, your ex will think you've done him a favor.

I appreciate it's difficult now though.

So you can do whatever 'Oxford based detective impression' you want.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Sat 13 Nov 2010, 0:19, Reply)