well, you know what i mean!!!
if there is already a relationship there (not in a romantic sense at this stage), there should be enough respect NOT to do a disappearing act and never ask for a second date OR have the common courtesy explain why you don't want there to be one. after all, if the date/sex was pretty mediocre, she is 99% likely to say "phew, i was thinking the same thing, let's be mates!"
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 15 Nov 2010, 13:08, Reply)