He wants you back
of course he would say that. But whether he changes or not, that change hasn't come from him, it's not an impetus he felt. It's something he's doing for a reason and that will become the basis for arguments later on 'I changed this, this and this for you, so you have to stay with me because I've made such an effort.' And if you found it so hard to dump him when you no longer wanted to go out with him,, imagine that with a guilt trup on top
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Thu 2 Dec 2010, 14:31, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

^ this
he is who he is, which is someone who is not right for you, by your own admission.
Do you want someone who's had to change or do you want someone who is right?
Enjoy being single and picking fruit from the trees for a while.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Thu 2 Dec 2010, 14:35, Reply)