Oooooh! - Get Him!!
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OK, let's get my own prejudices out of the way before I start ripping into someone else's. I can't stand camp gay men. I want to punch them. I feel the same way about them as I do about girly girls. (Actually, that's not true. With girly girls I want to kick them in the cunt but you get the idea...)

Anyway. What really annoys me is the still existing prejudices about gays.

"He rides a scooter, he must be gay"

"He moisturises - he must be gay"

"He wears pink shirts - he must be gay" (might have a point there actually.)

I've met quite a few blokes who I had no idea they were gay. They looked normal, spoke normally, liked football, one was a bouncer and , if they hadn't told me that they liked the cock, I would have no idea they were gay.

Being gay is just another sexual kink. It's what they prefer (like others like big knockers, BSDM, skinny girls (blerggh) etc). It doesn't define you as a person - it's only one small part of who you are.

These days I treat people as I find them. If they act like a dickhead or, I've nothing in common with them, I avoid their company. Their sexuality doesn't enter into it.

Try it folks. Just because someone is gay doesn't mean they want to shag you. They can make really good mates.

Cheers

secure in his sexuality.


( Legless Mister Stabby - shanks for the memory, Wed 7 May 2008, 13:48, 8 replies)

Hurray!
We love the gayers and straight men who are secure in their sexuality.
( girlinthehole, Wed 7 May 2008, 13:58, closed)

LOOK EVERYONE!
LEGLESS IS GAY!!!

Uuuuuuurgggh!
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Wed 7 May 2008, 13:59, closed)

Swedish men...
Ride scooters, use more hair product than the lasses, moisturise, drink sweet cider, hate real beer, go to tanning salons and wear pink regularly.

The majority are straight.

Still.. some of the nicest blokes I've met were gay: Turns out lots of my old school mates were gay too, but they were stuck in Narnia at the time.

So true Legless... *clicketty*
( Humpty Dumpty was Pushed Is unaware of having any limits., Wed 7 May 2008, 14:02, closed)

@Monty
Don't tell Mrs Legless...

shhhhh
( Legless Mister Stabby - shanks for the memory, Wed 7 May 2008, 14:10, closed)

Sexuality
The big problem lies in the common perception that human sexuality is binary. You're gay or you're straight. (And bisexuals are just more gays anyway.)

If people started considering sexuality as more of a gradient, flowing from complete heterosexuality on the one side to complete homosexuality on the other, with neither end really being achievable, they would get a more accurate idea of where they themselves place.

Yeah, so you may like looking at other blokes' cocks when you're at the urinals, but that doesn't mean you necessarily also want to suck it -- and have to beat up some random fellow wearing a pink shirt because you feel dirty about it.

I also don't understand why it is such a big deal what you choose to poke yourself into (or have poked into yourself) as long as you stick to your own species.
(quimbayah, Wed 7 May 2008, 14:37, closed)

*Flounces*
Flamboyant/militant gay people get on my tits just as much as straight people endlessly gobbing off about who/what they've just shagged.

I'm not interested in what you do with your winkies/mimsies in your own time, I'm not interested in how much of a stud you feel you are, and I really get fucked off when EVERY conversation has to include the topic of your sexuality.

Gay/Straight/Pick & Mix/Goats/Chains/Huge Vegetables. I don't care. I'll work out for myself if I think you're an Oxygen Thief.

In the name of Bob, be serious: you spend less time using your naughty bits than almost any other activity in your daily lives (unless you're very lucky, chained to the furniture or Sting). Just shut up about it.

Or I could go the other route and decide that everyone is a twat until proved otherwise.

However, I do get annoyed by people (usually blokes) who assume that all gay men are potential nonces.
(osok Rebel without a clue, Wed 7 May 2008, 14:56, closed)

On Sexuality..
"I don't care. I'll work out for myself if I think you're an Oxygen Thief."

I think that about sums it up..

Cheers
( Legless Mister Stabby - shanks for the memory, Wed 7 May 2008, 15:13, closed)

How unusually positive, cheers,
as a man who constantly gets annoyed at being told by people they 'never would have thought you was a fucking ginger beer' or some such just 'cos they find out I'm not scared of cock, it's nice to see that some folks get it.

Although I would agree to the point above about binary sexuality being unrealistic, I would counter the idea that nobody is ever one extreme or the other, just a very few are, say about 10 percent approx at a rough guess, IMO, and they're the ones (if 'straight') who never have and never would ever think about their own sex in any way as an option for sexual relief no matter how drunk they got.
For gay men these are those who define themselves as gay as they have no other inclination, for straight men these are the ones totally at ease about their heterosexuality and have no fear of 'being turned' by having gay mates, in the middle 10 percent are the Bi's and from there to the totally heterosexual guys you normally get little confusion or problems, so lastly you can probably guess my theory for the guys who say they're straight but shit themselves any time something possibly less than 100% confirmed hetero might be somewhere near them, and what others might think about it regarding them if they don't immediately start to say very very loudly that they're not gay or maybe even start hurting people.

Just go suck a cock and get over it, love! ;)

PS. Can't stand ridiculously camp guys who think everyone needs to hear about their last sex act at the highest possible volume either, BTW, but I generally manage to walk away from them!
( ..wil, Wed 7 May 2008, 17:51, closed)