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I really regret I'm not able to help you with your slapper of a a wife. Vengence against the man in question would be a bit pointless - I mean, he's Turkish *and* a waiter - what the hell could I do to him to make his life any worse.

No mate - he's not the problem here - your wife is. Her reasons for shagging him will always remain her own but I can tell you something for nowt. You did nothing wrong. She precipitated this, not you. You didn't drive her to shagging someone, she did that all by herself because she's a greedy, selfish bitch who is probably revelling in the pain she's causing you.

There's no fixing this mate. Stay with her and she'll realise that she can shag whoever she likes and then blame you for her actions. Tell her to fuck off. Cut your losses, kick her out (or move out) and start your life again. Millions of us have done it and are now happier than we were when we were trapped in a loveless, abusive, relationship. Best way to really put her through the wringer is to dump her and then go on to build hugely better life without her.

Courage mate and trust me in this. Once the initial pain of the break-up is over, life really does start to get better.

Cheers
( Legless Mister Stabby - shanks for the memory, Thu 12 Oct 2006, 10:55, Reply)