I think this raises a number of issues
the public humiliation of her- don't tell me that when the phone rang when you were with your mates you didn't make a show of it.
But saddest is the need to phone each other when you were in the same building, and the ringee could even hear the ringtone, you were that close.
Nothing to do with feminism, just lack of respect and laziness on both parts.
( TheSundaeLunch I'm a fucking shrub, alright?, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 0:16, 2 replies)

At least they weren't texting each other in the same room
That really would take the piss
( Another_tragic_case wished he hadn't eaten all the cake, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 8:45, closed)

Well there was a basic lack of respect on both parts true.
but without a richer context you can't begin to appreciate the reasons. I've been honest with the situation as I saw it - my own faults included which I could have simply not mentioned. You've also assumed she or I wasn't still at the pub which I neglected to mention for brevity. Please feel free to assume any facts not mentioned are exactly as you say.
( TheFinch is getting to grips with the complex plane on, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 13:48, closed)