"like to have a moan"
Sums it up exactly. I don't "like" to have a moan, I prefer not to have things I need to moan about. I find it easier both on myself and my other half to actually do something about it.

People who like to moan should find like-minded individuals. I just happen not to be one of them. Does that make me a bad person?
(lolwhites, Mon 28 Dec 2009, 14:09, 1 reply)

I'm just trying to help you solve your communication problem
I'm assuming that you're asking for help (as per your stated criteria) and am showing you where you're going wrong. Thus solving your problem.

Isn't that what you wanted me to do?

Forgive me, but it seems very much like you're actually just moaning that some women don't behave the way you'd like them to, rather than analysing where you're going wrong and attempting to make changes.
( in vino veritas, Mon 28 Dec 2009, 14:16, closed)

Thank you for being constructive
But as I've pointed out, I do empathise with a bad day at work/getting stuck in traffic/insensitive comment from a relative and so on.

My beef is more cases like the one court escaper points out in his reply.
(lolwhites, Mon 28 Dec 2009, 14:36, closed)