Madness
Having gone through your list I wish more girls were like you! Especially on the paragraph about you being too masculine!
My friend has told me she's being hassled about having kids by her older female relatives. She's 20!
(Ginger_Whinger got in the newsletter!! =D, Fri 1 Jan 2010, 23:04, 1 reply)

I've
been told i'm too masculine a couple of times. It's quite depressing. I'm perfectly happy being female, I have no wish to copy men and make no special effort to be tomboyish, it's just that the hair/manicures/stilettos/celebrities aspects of femaleness bore the shit out of me.

I know that women have a ticking biological clock, but 24 is NOT too late! These days, 34 isn't too late!

Essentially what I'm looking for is someone reasonably educated/intelligent, who's probably a bit shy and frankly, a bit geeky [i love scifi and fantasy etc.], who has their own circle of friends and will be happy to go off down the pub with them without me sometimes as i don't really get on with living in eachother's pockets 24/7; I value personal space on both sides. Oh, and someone who'll go see bands and live gigs with me.

Personally, I don't think i'm asking for much, but apparently my standards are too high! grrr!
( Seventh is somewhat subdued, Tue 5 Jan 2010, 14:25, closed)

Nothing wrong with having standards
What's the point in being with someone you're not happy with?

The majority of men are bored by girly topics so when it's the only thing they're capable of holding a conversation about I want to put my head through a wall.

I hate living in another's pockets. Even my best friends drive me mad if I've been around them long enough. Past girlfriends have seen this as me not liking them. Personal space is a necessity!

I'm looking for the same things.
(Ginger_Whinger got in the newsletter!! =D, Tue 5 Jan 2010, 16:59, closed)