Hahaha!
I'm bored, there's nowt on TV so I thought I'd enlighten you all! ;)
( ..wil, Thu 17 May 2012, 22:48, 1 reply)

More suspect
is the fact that I'm reading it all.
( monster munch person, man, woman... camera... TV?, Thu 17 May 2012, 22:52, closed)

I know far too much about such things, much of it from personal experience, either enacted on myself, others by myself, or watching others live or recorded,
I've tried to impart such knowledge on other more relevant sites or open information places like Wikipedia, but all that happens is you get a 'citation needed' and there aren't any, or it gets 'corrected' by others uncomfortable with such things being beyond their experience or urge to discover.

I also know shiteloads about chems, lucid tripping, psychonauts, and all that, craploads about BDSM, the lifestyles and all the inherent practises and expertises, the associated world of fetish, various divergent mentalities and the basic functions of the human brain and how to fuck with it in effective ways for positive corrctive outcomes or intense experiences, hypnosis and how that can tie in to all that, etc etc

I just can't seem to help being interested in such things, the many and various means man finds of experiencing or enhancing sexual pleasures many without any actual sex being involved, and especially the way we choose to consciously define our sexualities in relation to such practises, and how that varies country to country and culture to culture, and how easily chemically and socially influenced those thinking processes are, just fascinates me, always has, no animal has anything like this, we are quite extraordinary in our pursuits and complexities of recreational pleasures quite beyond all reason and yet seem incapable of comfortably quantising it in any socially acceptable kind of way beyond the simplistic concepts of the animalistic needs of self propagation, or even accepting sex purely for pleasure not only as a natural part of all of us but actually a needy part of a balanced life, or how incredibly cerebral sex actually is.

So fuck it, I do. Well, try to. Hey it's a fun hobby! ;)
( ..wil, Thu 17 May 2012, 23:32, closed)

I'm a heterosexual male
Dont fancy men, dont mind people that do. Been in sex parties watching blokes fucking while im fucking a woman, had stuff shoved up my arse in the name of gratification and would reccomend it to anyone, shagged a transexual before so technically I must be gay. I'm not, just think labels are bad as it means people need to conform.
(robneymcplum spiced up his life on, Fri 18 May 2012, 12:28, closed)

I dispensed with them years ago
At least as absolutes in real situations, only any good for hypothetical discussion really, and taking the piss, beyond that, don't take them very seriously at all at all at all, it's all just a kind of shorthand, not real life.

Years from now men will hopefully get back to the concept of 'fuck it it feels good' and drop all the sectioning.

Quite why women are never equally troubled by such things I have no idea...
( ..wil, Fri 18 May 2012, 21:16, closed)

I know it's odd to reply to yourself but a friend here just made a lovely analogy
We should stop thinking of sexuality, and all it's many sub sections and labels, as if being some kind of army fighting for a side and always getting into wars about who's doing what to whom for why, and instead think of it like being in the scouts, or perhaps paintballing, and it all just being just a big fun game we play together. It makes things easier and better to have labels, rules and hierarchies, and have sections of people directed into various apparently appropriate sections of society, putting like with like cos they get along easier for instance, but we shouldn't get all serious and protective about it and feel it needs absolutes that need to be protected or fought for, or get into physical wars about it.

It's all just games, we should be as children are and have fun with it, not try and kill one another over something that really never was meant to be a war in the first place.

Make love not war, then, I s'pose....
( ..wil, Sat 19 May 2012, 18:36, closed)