2 sides to this...
Firstly, KMWIP, I thought what you did was very funny.

Secondly, KMWIP, I what you did, although funny, was ultimately wrong and your ex probably would have grounds to claim you assaulted her. YOU are NOT however a rapist. I trust the person who messaged you is a new user and has never vited sickipedia....

I can sort of see both sides to this - whoever messaged you did a spectacularly bad job of making their point, but still...

I found out last week that my current missus was repeatedly raped over a number of years by a member of her close family. That has made it very hard to laugh at many of the things on this site that usually have me pissing myself.

I admit, that if had I the opportunity to hurt that member of my girlfriend's family I'd happily do the same and worse. The thought of her scared, hurting... and I guess I'd brag about it too.

From that position KMWIP I can't (and try not to) judge you. Having said that, and acknowledging that others have probably made the point better, there are 2 sides to every coin.

In this case I see, on one side, a cheating partner who acted in a shameful way and deserved some sort of retribution along with a hurting partner who, on the spur of the moment, did something silly out of spite.

On the other side I see a woman (albeit in this case through her own bad choices) in a vulnerable position (you had unrightful access to something you knew she'd be using for sex) being purposefully sexually hurt (a different kind of hurt to you scratching all her favourite CDs, I think you will admit KMWIP).

So, there you have a collection of, in retrospect, quite rambling and not particularly coherent thoughts/arguments.

Please forgive me - its been a draining week.

To close, I'm clicking this because, for the discussion alone this deserves to be on the first page.
(ComplexStuff Was confused by life on, Tue 30 Sep 2008, 1:05, Reply)