So you were shitfaced
made a pass at this fella who was sober, and he wasn't interested?

Big deal. Not a good idea to pounce after 17 shots. Give it another go when you're sober. You never know 'til you try. And if he says no then fuck him (actually, no, find someone else and fuck them).

Loads n loads of people in the world n all that bollocks...
( SpankyHanky, Fri 6 Nov 2009, 0:23, 3 replies)

Given
that I live in a small college and every person is intent on letting me know that they know, it's a pretty big deal. I mean this is a college that has lists in its gossip sheet of basically whose fucked who in the last month. And try pulling another man after that- the fuckers were laughing themselves senseless
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Fri 6 Nov 2009, 0:26, closed)

We've all done stuff we regret
I find it helps with the gossip mongers to walk round radiating a 'fuck you' attitude. Any nonsense like that would soon stop. And this fella, if he's not interested don't beat yourself up about it. I can absolutely guarentee 100% there's somebody out there who feels the same about you as you do about him. Its just the way it is. Fucked up? Yep. But depending on how you approach it it can actually be a bit of a laugh.

Sorry, relationship advice from me is about as useful as a chocolate teapot...
( SpankyHanky, Fri 6 Nov 2009, 0:32, closed)

Alternatively
pretend it didn't happen and if he's the nice fella you reckon he is, he won't bring it up/tell his mates. Then you can start from scratch! If he does bring it up, laugh it off with "oh did I? LOLOLOLOL I was sooooo drunk that night, sorry!" Then you can offer to take him out for a coffee or whatever to apologise, then maybe you can make some headway!

And don't give up, do what Spanky says and give it another go, and if he isn't interested, don't see it as you've blown it, just see it as he just ain't that into you. (Good film btw)

Good luck x
(becky_bubbles, Fri 6 Nov 2009, 0:30, closed)

thanks
to you both. You're right. A fuck-it attitude is needed.

And possibly a non drinking week
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Fri 6 Nov 2009, 0:51, closed)

Week?!
Let's not go mental.
(ConanTroutman thought we would free the vulture, Fri 6 Nov 2009, 10:11, closed)