I think it is you who should MTFU
give it ten or twenty years and maybe you'll realise that there is more to life than some comic book hero and fair maiden fairytale.

Much much more. And some of it is not of this world.

ladyintheradiator - I hope by now you've realised what to do. If not feel free to gaz.
( buffet_the_appetite_slayer ٩(●̮̃•)۶ jacked in to the ICE on, Sun 20 Jun 2010, 23:11, 2 replies)

hmmm
sounds to me like you've low self-esteem if you seriously think that the OP's boyfriend's behaviour was acceptable, or par for the course of a 'non-fairytale' relationship.
If someone who nominally cared for me treated me like that, it would be over in a shot, whether they were drunk or not.
(jennymnemonic, Mon 21 Jun 2010, 15:08, closed)

Maybe
But someone has to keep the ideal alive. I'm not saying it isn't perhaps naive and the situation is, I'm sure, more complicated, but if a friend or someone I was supposed to be dating called me up and said they had been attacked I'd be there regardless of the situation. If that makes me some 'comic book hero' then feel free to call me Batman. I don't think my attitude in this will change...
(satanstolemyteddybear Mu hõljuk on angerjaid täis, Mon 21 Jun 2010, 21:46, closed)