why is it all so complicated?
lost mine very late (much older than 20), after a couple of near misses at uni. Eventually met someone off the Internet and after a few weeks of enjoyable playing lost it to on the sofa. It was so good I went numb. Also went soft from nerves when inside her.

First penetrative sex with coming was with another woman. I couldnt feel much, and there wasnt even an orgasm. I've still not had satisfactory penetrative sex, although BDSM, hand jobs, tit fucking and good foreplay rock. It's the journey, not the destination that's important (I'm larger than average, have had my technique approved of and arent senseless down there, it's a pity it's not doing much for me yet).

Lost my bi V plates to a bloke I already knew from a club. Ended up going back to his and having a mostly great time - he made me feel so hot doing a couple of things.

Did it all sober, which seems remarkable in comparison with everyone else.

sod waiting for true love - being a virgin as you get older is horrific. Lose it to someone you like that wont bolt straight afterwards, as more experience is expected from older peeps..

I envy people that seem to manage 'I'm a man, you're a woman, we like each other, let's shag' because it's never that simple for me :(
(EssY, Tue 8 Mar 2005, 13:22, Reply)