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Conversations that start, "We have to talk..." are never good.

Tell us about the ones you've been trapped in.

(, Fri 20 Apr 2007, 9:34)
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i'm afraid me and the love of my life...
...tend to have a bit of a Heathcliff/Cathy relationship, usually at, ahem, certain phases of the moon. Surprised he puts up with me sometimes, but he can be just as bad. So the 'talk' conversation happens quite often, but it's usually pretty productive until either the hormones start, or he goes on a week's bender (like this week - we've been having 'the talk' every night since monday. oh the joy.) Anyway, a proper sacrifice is required here.

I once went out with a bloke who I got on great with, had plenty of chemistry, and his mates liked me. He did, however, have a habit of desperately trying to sleep with me, which was only endearing on the first attempt. After that, walking into his flat and his greeting consisting of walking into the bedroom stripping... just a bit unsubtle, i find.

However, hormones+christmas*=not good relationship start-out material. Having said that, randomly deciding not to even send a text over the entire christmas period - was it wrong for me to be *slightly* pissed at him?

So, I called him. Told him, yes, we needed to talk. It was a truly pathetic conversation. He was 'ill'. He 'forgot'. He was 'busy'.

All of this I would've bought, were it not for the giggling tart in the background.

Stupid bastard.

EDIT: in writing this, it has just dawned on me - this was the only 'we need to talk' conversation I've ever had. Outside of the mad, sexy, lovely man I have now, of course, who is worth every bonkers moment. But otherwise, I seemed to have only been dumped via complete silence from the other party. Is that a good thing?

*I tend to go a bit loopy at christmas. This is due to my insane family who I always had to put up with, but these days as we get to choose where it's spent, I have begun to normalise...
(, Fri 20 Apr 2007, 22:40, Reply)

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