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Conversations that start, "We have to talk..." are never good.

Tell us about the ones you've been trapped in.

(, Fri 20 Apr 2007, 9:34)
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Crazy psycho ex
I think most of the posts here deal with ex's, so I really don't want to bugger things up. I live in Ames, IA in the states and attend Iowa State Uni. Most of the women here are complete cunts. I happened to meet one that I figured was fairly sane, so we dated and eventually started a "steady" relationship. Early on in the relationship we established that she wanted to remain a virgin. Alright, no biggie. I wasn't a virgin, and I knew it would be hard to abstain in this relationship, but whatever, love's love, right?

She was very wonderful, very loving, liked spontaneous making out etc. It seemed to make up for the lack of hardcore sex. About a year into the relationship, she stopped kissing me, cold turkey... Nothing else had changed, she just stopped kissing me. When I asked her about it, she avoided the topic. I started questioning whether I had picked up an awful horse-mouth smell or not. Whatever, we're still in love, right?!

6 MONTHS after this starts was her 21st Birthday. Since I was roughly two months younger than her, I couldn't join her at the bars. I was rather upset at this fact and asked that she come back and see me after she was down partying with her friends (damn American drinking laws). She agreed, went and got trashed, came back, acted cold, said goodnight, and went to bed. I waited up until 2 AM, I at least halfway expected better treatment.

The next day, she sits me down and says the dreaded words, "We need to talk...". She essentially blames me for the lack of sexual connection in our relationship, says she never loved me, was never looking for a long-term relationship, and dumps me.

Couldn't she have done that say, 18 months before? Stupid cunt...
(, Wed 25 Apr 2007, 21:32, Reply)

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