True
But I think the threat of it is enough. The kids know that they each have a certain amount of cash spent on them each year. He would not like the thought of any of that cash being spent on something he hates and also depleting the total of the money on good presents. He also knows not to attempt to call my bluff after living with me for so long.
(mon bison powered by magnets, Wed 21 Dec 2011, 14:07, Reply)