slow on the up take
after being with an ex for 3 years and being pissed about i finanly decided to dump him

in the run up to me leaving i manneged to move most of my clothes and belongings to a friends house..................you would think that after a while he would have got the idea of what was going on
but no
a pet hamster he asked what happend to the haster and was told it died and i gave the cage to a friend
and i aranged for my mum to meet me after work

the day i did this he was at his best frieds house
i had allready phoned them that day to ask them to keep him there untill well after i get home from work

i had also asked my mum to come to the flat and help move stuff.....mum has a car

so after a couple of hours of moving stuff we finnished and i went to a friends and stayed there untill my ex got back

at about 8 in the evening i got back to the flat and was receved with "we have been robbed"

i then had to point out it was only my stuff that had gone and i was leaving him

5 mins later when it had sunk in he then burst into tears and asked me to stay


to this day he has no idea that his friends were all trying to get me to move out
and his best friends helped the most in the split
(rose-a-lita, Fri 18 Jun 2004, 15:49, Reply)