I think you probably can turn it down.
Say "No, thank you" in a firm but polite voice while maintaining eye contact. Shake hands. Depart as friends. Call him up later and meet him in a cheap hotel room. Wear that dress.
(MooCow_Byter, Mon 18 May 2009, 22:52, archived)

this is it, no offence, forum banter
great forum, good times
( mongychops, Mon 18 May 2009, 22:54, archived)