people are always going to judge on looks
it's not pleasant, but it happens (I've had women laugh at my receding hairline in clubs etc.)

I'd rather be honest about and admit that I find X more attractive than Y (in a purely physical sense) than lie to people.

My problem with this so-called debate is that terms of reference are completely wrong. Thin women are not freaks (merely fewer in number) and non-thin women are no more real (merely more common) than thin women etc.
( custard, Sat 23 May 2009, 14:32, archived)

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
baldy baldy bald bald.
( ArthurTheRat, Sat 23 May 2009, 14:36, archived)

i bet he's on the dole too

( Lightguy hail satan, Sat 23 May 2009, 14:39, archived)

yep
I got some fresh newspaper for my park bench/bed this morning and fresh supplies of industrial cider
( custard, Sat 23 May 2009, 14:42, archived)