I wouldn't ask for it back just yet, to be honest
as a rule, if I lend money to friends I don't expect it back.
( spangolin - the odds are good but the goods are odd, Mon 25 May 2009, 15:16, archived)

In other words, I'll look a HUGE C*nt then.
/as a rule, I don't lend money to mates or otherwise, but given the fact there were 3 young chiddlers to support in all of this, I felt obliged to help
( The Great Architect is still waiting for his account to be deleted on, Mon 25 May 2009, 15:17, archived)

yup.

( spangolin - the odds are good but the goods are odd, Mon 25 May 2009, 15:18, archived)

I must admit
I tend to think, would I rather have the money or the friendship? That is normally the decider.
( The Cat's Mother Not a People Person., Mon 25 May 2009, 15:26, archived)