it's ok
I WANT TO BE BETTER, I WANT TO BE BETTER, I WANT TO BE BETTER.

But I'm not.
( GrandmaOfShoes, Fri 10 Jul 2009, 10:56, archived)

It is a source of constant disappointment
when one is not better than one is, but instead only exactly as good as one is.
( Moon Girl Technologies horrendous beanbag, Fri 10 Jul 2009, 11:23, archived)