Well, in my experiance...When one of 'the group' gets a new boy/girlfriend, then that person normaly neglets the group. It's bound to happen as the social time is now shaird out - and to this stranger.
However, this is better than going with someone within 'the group', as the group splinters off, and can leave with alot of nasty bickering and general unfluffyness.
Sollution? get the girl into the group.
G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩€,
Fri 5 Sep 2003, 0:28,
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Yes, and I would understnad that...BUT...
They have not even met her yet. It's completely uncalled for behaviour.
(They have not even met her yet. It's completely uncalled for behaviour.
Scoopzilla http://www.slapwatch.com now get to fuck,
Fri 5 Sep 2003, 0:28,
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With all friends,they have those points. I've noticed that with girls, its whoever isn't in the room at that point in time - but you have to take the good with the bad, or just say 'fuck it', but the truth is, do you really want to risk loosing all your friends just for a girl you started seeing?
G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩€,
Fri 5 Sep 2003, 0:32,
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For this one?Oh indeed. I feel like I'm 14 again.
( Scoopzilla http://www.slapwatch.com now get to fuck,
Fri 5 Sep 2003, 0:39,
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Then its probs best to invite them all out to a meal,or to your house. get some take-away, have a few drinks, and show them they are not to be jellouse.
I think trying to find if the problem is real, or emotional (jellusy etc), could help you alot. And having a gathering will help you at lest find that out.
How old are you btw?
(I think trying to find if the problem is real, or emotional (jellusy etc), could help you alot. And having a gathering will help you at lest find that out.
How old are you btw?
G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩€,
Fri 5 Sep 2003, 0:45,
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Too fecking oldto be acting like a teenager
32
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Scoopzilla http://www.slapwatch.com now get to fuck,
Fri 5 Sep 2003, 0:47,
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Ahh',Then your not just some puppy-love-striken-16-year-old, so you know whats real (to an extent, as no one really does untill a good few years).
Might aswell get in with her group of mates, maybe joining up the two groups together with a gathering.
(Might aswell get in with her group of mates, maybe joining up the two groups together with a gathering.
G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩€,
Fri 5 Sep 2003, 0:48,
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Oh well yeah...and for years I was quite the protective (of myself) person. The friend gathering isn't gonna happen, I'm afraid.
( Scoopzilla http://www.slapwatch.com now get to fuck,
Fri 5 Sep 2003, 0:50,
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If they are your friends,and they know you are a self-protective person (and I guess that means semi-low self-esteam, Don't want to get hurt / take the risk as much), then they should know that it hurts you when they are like this.
It kindda, remineds me of these little song I made up one day
I'll stand up and you'll see,
Im sick of being the novalty,
I thought we were friends,
Turns out I was wrong in the end.
So for once I stand up,
and I feel guilty as hell
I show that Im fed up,
and I feel guilty as hell
(It kindda, remineds me of these little song I made up one day
I'll stand up and you'll see,
Im sick of being the novalty,
I thought we were friends,
Turns out I was wrong in the end.
So for once I stand up,
and I feel guilty as hell
I show that Im fed up,
and I feel guilty as hell
G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩€,
Fri 5 Sep 2003, 0:56,
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yesmaybe a social get together with a no pressure atmosphere to introduce all to one another. But 3 weeks? maybe it's a lost cause and send them all a cock off email instead.
( M3Essential and The Essentials. LIVE!,
Fri 5 Sep 2003, 0:29,
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Nah' - why burn your bridges ?Call them up, get 'em all down to the pub, and get sloshed.
G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩€,
Fri 5 Sep 2003, 0:30,
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Oh believe me...I'm almost there...
I hate the silent treatment.
(I hate the silent treatment.
Scoopzilla http://www.slapwatch.com now get to fuck,
Fri 5 Sep 2003, 0:32,
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yeahI was kidding about the email. If they are true friends and you are serious about this girl, then it will work out eventually.
( M3Essential and The Essentials. LIVE!,
Fri 5 Sep 2003, 0:35,
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I agree...Reminds me, friends are having a music party on the 20th in Newport Beach...
( Scoopzilla http://www.slapwatch.com now get to fuck,
Fri 5 Sep 2003, 0:40,
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In my experience,on one hand that's Bad 'cos it caused group breakup and Much Nastyness, but on the other hand I got together with Mrs Witchy as a direct result so woo!
(
witchy is covered in BEES,
Fri 5 Sep 2003, 0:30,
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