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# i dont feel that way at all
everyone knows how i feel, i'm very open about my feelings, but they know that i believe that i believe thier happiness is more important than mine (or to be more preicse, i will feel horribly guilty if i put myself before my friends and feel worse for it) and everyone who really cares about me does thier best to encourage me to not be so considerate to them from time to time, and in half a vicious cirlce, i know that my doing this will make them happiest. Simply put, i'm a nice person, but because i'm so nice people often don't let me be.
(, Sat 21 Aug 2004, 2:02, archived)
# Ok fine /Rum
You know your right. Thats good enough for you, but ima off to bed now, goodnight and goodluck.

/beaten down
(, Sat 21 Aug 2004, 2:04, archived)
# that's not being nice
that's being insecure
(, Sat 21 Aug 2004, 2:06, archived)
# is it me being insecure
if i think that if i can;t have the best girl i know, my best mate should have her instead? I think the world of both of them, surely if i can't have that sort of happiness, i wouldn't deny the ones i care about the chance to have it.
(, Sat 21 Aug 2004, 2:11, archived)
# being overly nice the way you describe
is to your own detriment. you yourself have said your friends stop you stepping back for them, they recognise that they don't need you to help them, and hell, they probably don't want you to either. But despite all this, you say you still put other people first even when it really hurts because they're "more important".

That my friend, is insecurity. work on it.
(, Sat 21 Aug 2004, 2:16, archived)