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# Bit of a TJ question
My ladyfriend found out that her housemate has been slying off to got for a drink with her ms weasel's ex-boyfriend and she's getting worked up about it.
It makes little difference to me, but how many people would have a problem with this kind of thing?
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:13, archived)
# I wouldn't see it as any of my business were I yourself or her.
Unless you have some sort of interest in her.

What's slying off- does that mean from work? Is your partner worried she'll get the sack and not be able to make rent?
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:14, archived)
# No, slying away without telling anyone
I guess she's a bit hurt/bitter/something that they've been going for drinks behind her back.
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:18, archived)
# Was she part of their relationship then?
Perhaps they have private things to discuss.
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:19, archived)
# Honestly, I think its a bit of jelousy
her relationship kinda ended sourly with him.
(may or may not be because of me)
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:21, archived)
# Hang on.
This bird's going for a drink with your missus' ex, or the bird's ex?

Either way, I don't know why your missus'd be getting in a flap. If it's her ex- she has you now- she shouldn't worry what her exes are up to (christ, if we all did that we'd never have time to do anything else) and if it's the bird's ex then it's none of her business.

*twopenneth*
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:25, archived)
# this is great!
b3ta Counseling services!
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:26, archived)
# yea, thats what I thought.
Just making sure I wasn't being a dick by not getting involved or whatnot
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:27, archived)
# Not at all
You're being the grown up.

Tell her you'll give her something to really worry about, then do her up the bum. Sorted.
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:30, archived)
# This^
then have a BLT
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:31, archived)
# BLTs should be the solution to everything
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:35, archived)
# KILL THEM ALL
let God sort 'em out.
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:33, archived)
# I agree
Everyone should move on and have a BLT
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:28, archived)
# hold the LT please.
and add more meat.
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:31, archived)
# What do you want to drink Kowalski?
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:34, archived)
# liquidized meats.
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:39, archived)
# hmmm
If i were you i'd have a BLT.
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:26, archived)
# I've no problem.
he's an ex.
what he does is nothing to do with her.
I met a ex of my missus out once. he was telling me how lovely mrs ivesb is and
i told him i'd cut his head off if he tried anything.
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:16, archived)
# As I say, it has no interest for me.
But sometimes women want to have their cake and eat everyone elses.

But I don't know if I should be diffusing the situation or just let it run its course
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:20, archived)
# I'd just leave it
and if your missus gets upset by it tell to stop being
silly and talk to her friend about it.
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:22, archived)
# Yea, but her friend is a bit difficult
She kinda resented them splitting up on the terms they did (me) and she's being kinda mean about the whole thing
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:24, archived)
# bloody women*
*not all women.
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:25, archived)
# nah
you never have any claim over anyone

big waste of energy

/2p
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:16, archived)
# dissolve them both in acid
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:19, archived)
# I like where this is going
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:20, archived)
# yeah once a day and twice on sunday.
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:23, archived)
# i'd be more concerned if the slying had been going on prior to him becoming ex
*is known to have slyed with his brothers ex for a number of years.

he was still smitten, bless him.
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:20, archived)
# the friends ex or your mrs ex?
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:21, archived)
# Ms. weasels ex boyfriend and her housemate
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:22, archived)
# so they both went out with him before?
if its an EX of a friend you are legally obligated to ask for said friends blessing before seeing the person.
In the same way you cannnot sleep with a friends sister unless you plan on marrying them.
costs me thousands in divorce settlements yearly.
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:27, archived)
# Yea, I think the housemate should have said something to ms weasel sooner
but I don't think ms. weasel should get aggro about it.
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:29, archived)
# if something is said before theres rarely agro
in my experiance
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:32, archived)
# i'm assuming she's more miffed at the sneakiness than the actual act
sounds to me like the flatmate is being a bit bitchy.
tell your mrs to ignore it.
if the flatmate wants to be pals with her ex then so what?
and if she's doing it to wind her up once she sees she's not bothered she'll stop.

/agony uncle aphex blog

edit: have a threesome with the two girls and they'll both see that you're the only man they need ;)
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:28, archived)
# got it in one.
cheers chief.

*edit* Huzzah!
(, Tue 20 Feb 2007, 10:31, archived)