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# oh FFS
seriously counselling for teens? no offence dude, but i don't think you should worry too much about your emotions and so on untill you reach a hormonal plateau and you've got a better grasp on what it is you're actually feeling. rather than thinking you do whilst being controlled by shitloads of testosterone which fucks everything up anyway.

Just an opinion mind, i know some people do have real issues.
(I helped save b3ta! Just Flange, Mon 21 Jan 2008, 16:04, archived)
# You think I'd see the school counselor about hormonal problems?
(I helped save b3ta! ClanSoul, Mon 21 Jan 2008, 16:06, archived)
# Is she hawt?
(I helped save b3ta! Barbarossa is not my real name, Mon 21 Jan 2008, 16:08, archived)
# That's irrelevant
yes
(I helped save b3ta! ClanSoul, Mon 21 Jan 2008, 16:09, archived)
# no, not what i'm saying at all.
i'm saying that at your age (and please i really don't wanna sound condescending, but i'm gonna anyway) most issues are in your head, and largely related to the fact that your body is being raped by hormones. trust me, if you look back in 10 years time i've little doubt that these issues will seem miniscule compared to the shit you have to deal with once you grow up.

and besides, b3ta is not a place to discuss true feeling, unless you're talking about yiffporn. keep it to the gaz, for all our sakes eh?
(I helped save b3ta! Just Flange, Mon 21 Jan 2008, 16:16, archived)
# This is true. It probably doesn't help at all at the time though.
And you will, of course, disagree at the time.
(I helped save b3ta! my other username is a porsche , posting shit pictures so you don't have to, Mon 21 Jan 2008, 16:18, archived)
# exactly, that's why i'd say don't give 'em the option. i never had it.
if i went to one of my teachers with any sort of "emotional" issues i'd have been told to get a fuckin grip, and to be honest, i think i'm better off for it.
this just seems like rewarding insecurity. bugs the fuck out o' me.
(I helped save b3ta! Just Flange, Mon 21 Jan 2008, 16:22, archived)
# Yeah, I've always believed in sorting out your problems yourself,
but I'm sure there are people and situations when something like this can help.
(I helped save b3ta! my other username is a porsche , posting shit pictures so you don't have to, Mon 21 Jan 2008, 16:24, archived)
# yeah i know there are, for definite.
just feel that when you're a teen it's impossible to pin down your emotions in any way that might actually help.
they'll change every second because of all the hormones.
i think counselling can only really work if you have a reasonable idea of who you are and what drives you to do the things you do, as a teen your hormones drive most of what you do say and think, not a conducive state of mind to logical discussion of emotion.

in my opinon anyway.
(I helped save b3ta! Just Flange, Mon 21 Jan 2008, 16:29, archived)
# Ah, what's being a teenager without angst?
(I helped save b3ta! my other username is a porsche , posting shit pictures so you don't have to, Mon 21 Jan 2008, 16:06, archived)
# exactly, so whats the point in spewing to a counsellor. do like the rest of us.
dress funny and pretend to be "different"
(I helped save b3ta! Just Flange, Mon 21 Jan 2008, 16:13, archived)
# Yes, but it's even cooler if you're seeing a counsellor too.
(I helped save b3ta! my other username is a porsche , posting shit pictures so you don't have to, Mon 21 Jan 2008, 16:15, archived)
# shit, good point.
i take it back, Clan Soul, do you wanna borrow my black nail polish?
(I helped save b3ta! Just Flange, Mon 21 Jan 2008, 16:18, archived)
# One of my shoes is too small
(I helped save b3ta! Mighty Nibus who dares gins | @nibus, Mon 21 Jan 2008, 16:07, archived)
# One of my replies is more deleted than this one
(I helped save b3ta! Mighty Nibus who dares gins | @nibus, Mon 21 Jan 2008, 16:26, archived)