
and don't know if anyone will tell me if i ask but is mofaha kk's brother? dad? what? i've always assumed brother but then the other day either you or her said something like this and i wondered exactly what.
surely gaz would be ok? it's still through b3ta, it's still the two of you. if mofaha's fussed he's normally not exactly far from her to see what the two of you are writing anyway, wherever it's put.
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surely gaz would be ok? it's still through b3ta, it's still the two of you. if mofaha's fussed he's normally not exactly far from her to see what the two of you are writing anyway, wherever it's put.

I understand it's irritating, and I really wish there were other options.
But there aren't.
And I really don't want to do anything that would get mofaha angry. He's a good bloke and I don't want to do that to him :(
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But there aren't.
And I really don't want to do anything that would get mofaha angry. He's a good bloke and I don't want to do that to him :(

but seriously, whats the problem with gaz? you're not gonna try and groom her are you?
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but anyway, my reply was that i don't understand the issue with gaz either -- or anything, come to that, if mofaha's normally nearby. (cos let's be honest, clansoul or whatever he wants to call himself has been grooming kk like crazy... ;) ) ultimately that's not really anyone's fault but mofaha though, and he's always seemed pretty reasonable himself so i'm not really sure of what's going on.
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she was rather worried when i broguth home my b3tan boyfriend...but it turned out she rather liked him. he won her over by buying wine.
i miss him for that. i wouldn't mind some wine about now.
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i miss him for that. i wouldn't mind some wine about now.

but i'm also in baden-wuertemberg which is not much help to you
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ultimately it's his call, and I fully respect and share his concern for the welfare of a daughter around here, but this is the internet; and quite frankly he must of figured you are the fifteen year old you say you are, presumably Kitty's age, and not some fourty something no-hoper trying to groom, and allow you two to gaz each other as mates
Whilst he obviously might not want to spy into your communications as a parent, he would at least be aware they are comming from you and no one else
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Whilst he obviously might not want to spy into your communications as a parent, he would at least be aware they are comming from you and no one else

And he has said to me that he is 90% sure of who I am, but he does not want to risk that 10%, that keeps him "hyper-cautious".
Which, also, I respect.
It's not an ideal situation, but that's not the point.
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Which, also, I respect.
It's not an ideal situation, but that's not the point.