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# hahaha.
ask mongy, he's met me, he can tell you what they're like.
(I helped save b3ta! KittyVomit more super than a can of Tennants, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:16, archived)
# BUT MONGY IS A RAPIST!
I woudl ask Hexy for advice, but you're too old ;)
(I helped save b3ta! Redsushi! Whoop! Whoop! Yes, that one!, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:17, archived)
# ahahaha i've just realised
last night i was talking to you, and thought all the way through you were killerkitti... and your sig (plus fake chatting up of jeru) amused and confused me.

oops.
although.... ;D
(quibble, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:29, archived)
# FAKE?!
(Jeru War and Piss, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:30, archived)
# ohhh.
*sucks teeth*
god. this is... awkward.
(quibble, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:33, archived)
# I should say, you're supposed to tuck your teeth in when you give a blowjob.
(Jeru War and Piss, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:35, archived)
# oh no i quite like the razor sharp raking of enamel
against my tender parts.
and the blood.
ohhhhhhhhh.....
(quibble, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:38, archived)
# nibble quibble
?

(question, not an offer)
(I helped save b3ta! mikenco, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:38, archived)
# aw what?
what am i supposed to do now?
i've already unzipped the fly man.
(quibble, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:42, archived)
# All you seek..
is here

*runs*
(I helped save b3ta! mikenco, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:44, archived)
# hey hey hey
hold on a minute!

you dropped your gay card as you were running!
come back!
*chases*
(quibble, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:45, archived)
# And for my next impression..
Jessie Owens!
(I helped save b3ta! mikenco, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:50, archived)
# woo woo!
*pppssst*
who's jessie owens?
(quibble, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:52, archived)
# Olympic runner!
(not seen Blazing Saddles?)
(I helped save b3ta! mikenco, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:53, archived)
# nope
though i have heard it referenced in Robin Hood: Men In Tights

where Atchoo gets appointed the sheriff at the end and everyone's all 'a black sheriff?' and he turns to them and says 'hey. it worked in blazing saddles!'

i dont know why or if this is funny.
maybe i should go watch blazing saddles...
(quibble, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:58, archived)
# You should..
Defo one of the best movies of all time.
(I helped save b3ta! mikenco, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 2:00, archived)
# Taking your flagrant homosexuality aside for a moment, done any writing, drawings lately?
Or have you just been having sex, what with the universities being back.
(Jeru War and Piss, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:41, archived)
# haha flagrant
but no, i've been really unproductive lately
my foundation course just finished so i've been lazing around at home doing feck all.

i've had a few random half-crazed ideas, but nothing solid.

i did however, break up with my girlfriend. which made me a sad quibble :(
(quibble, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:44, archived)
# I have very little idea how people would maintain relationships when they are at different universities.
That sounds pretty sad though, especially as you wrote about her a lot.
(Jeru War and Piss, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:46, archived)
# it is tricky
but it's like i said to her, i didnt just want A Girlfriend, i wanted her.
but it'll be alright, cause we still love each other, it's just got to the point where she can't enjoy herself knowing it's coming to and end with us moving to opposite sides of the country.

but i'm gonna finish my animation course and i'm gonna find her, and we'll live happily ever after. you'll see.
(quibble, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:49, archived)
# Long distance relationships are really hard
Been there.. if you love each other, you'll find a way. (me and mine did)
(I helped save b3ta! mikenco, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:52, archived)
# she's kinda hung up on the
not wanting to curb my fun thing
she wants me to go to uni and meet people and not feel tied down to a girlfriend.
which is obviously crazy...
i certainly dont understand what goes through that pretty little head of hers...
(quibble, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:55, archived)
# It's easy to read into that
that she may not be a serious as yourself?
(I helped save b3ta! mikenco, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:57, archived)
# yeah, i've thought about that
but we've talked about it quite a lot, and she's said she really does see us happily ever after kind of thing, like her parents who split up for uni have been married for 25 years...

she says she's worried we'll miss each other and something bad'll happen.
it's also the fact that i'm going into my first year, she's going into her 3rd year, and then she'll have this 3 year placement with ernst and young. there's really no forseeable time we're going to be near each other.
we wont even see each other over holidays because she'll be stressed over exams and such.

thanks for your thoughts on this by the way, someone impartial is kinda helpful.
(quibble, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 2:04, archived)
# My predicament worked out for 'us'
18 years later, still married.

likewise, her parents..

I guess you just gotta run with it and see what destiny has in store for you both.

Best of luck and all that :)
(I helped save b3ta! mikenco, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 2:07, archived)
# yeah my plan is to just see what happens
i mean obviously now that it's fresh i'm more likely to make promises about what'll happen in three years time that i might not keep.
i mean three years IS a long long time and people change.

it's the not knowing that annoys me though...
someone should hurry up and invent a crystal ball or time machine of some kind.
(quibble, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 2:11, archived)
# No such luck when it comes to relationships
It's all about effort and teamwork from the both of you.

The 'team' will either pull through or it will not.

That is destiny
(I helped save b3ta! mikenco, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 2:18, archived)
# well yeah
it's like that episode of scrubs i always remember, where someones having a go at carla and turk, and telling them how ALL couples go through the same shit, but it's the ones that dont let that shit break them apart are the ones that stay.

but it's still enough to make you wonder, will i still like her in three years time, will she still like me?

the worst part for now though really is cause she's like my best friend never mind girlfriend, so i cant exactly cut contact and move on because i'll have no-one to talk to, and carrying on talking to her is just going to make me miserable for the next three years.
well... probably.
(quibble, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 2:30, archived)
# I worry about people wanting each other purely in context.
They have fantastic, glorious times together, but days don't last forever. There's consequence, growing, aging, soon you can't just run around in fields having glorious days, you have a future and not just a present.
(Jeru War and Piss, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 1:56, archived)
# i'm.... not actually sure what you're getting at
(quibble, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 2:07, archived)
# Just that I worry that people have burning love now, but don't really think about how it works out in the future.
You know, people even say 'I love you' as if the term has a universal meaning. Then as time goes on it's 'I love you but' or 'I thought you loved me' because people never really about how their exact feelings or ambitions or what the future might hold or whatever.

I don't know, I just worry about people. People don't talk enough.
(Jeru War and Piss, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 2:11, archived)
# ahhh ok gotcha
well i kinda think though, that when you say 'i love you' it doesnt mean in like a universal sense, it's more an expression of that one little moment there.

like, it's that hot bubbling feeling you get in your chest bursting out your mouth.

i dont think you can ever really say anything in an Absolute sense, because you never know what's going to happen. the person you love might go mental and change completely. but then, that person that you loved back then kinda doesnt exist anymore.
(quibble, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 2:20, archived)
# Well then you say that you want to spend your time with the person they are now, you say you want to have 'days like these' forever but don't know what the future would bring.
There may not be any absolute terms, but there are a lot of terms to be had and the more you use the closer to a true expression you get.

Maybe apart from the seperation she was just giving you an excuse to seek company, try new things, try BDSM, try lovers, try men (and that's not so much a comment on the fact that you write love poetry as it is that everyone seems to be bisexual these days). Basically what I'm saying is, maybe she wants me to come round to your house and have anal sex with you, which you will enjoy, WHICH I WILL MAKE YOU ENJOY.

Or failing that we should do some kind of writing-drawing collaborative thing.
(Jeru War and Piss, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 2:28, archived)
# well there is that
we're never going to know if we're right for each other if we dont try other things.
i dont think anyones ever really 100% certain about anything, unless they're deluding themselves, because everyone has self-doubt.
which kinda shatters the romantic idea that love is all heady and passionate and every particle of your being is a big heap of 'YES!'
but hey. this is reality.

also... a writing/drawing collaborative thingy? now i'm intrigued. i DO have some ideas that were built on a collaberative basis. gaz me you curious thing (that is not a come-on, honestly)
(quibble, Wed 18 Jun 2008, 2:52, archived)