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The whole smell issue may be a result of the anxiety or guilt that is generated by the masturbation.

Masturbation itself is not the whole problem, but your guilt about it is probably at the source of your problem. See a therapist.

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gronkpan https://twitter.com/VomitingLarry, Mon 27 Apr 2009, 14:01, archived)

Massturbation???

_{advice needed: I am 16 years old (17 in a week). I started masturbating when i turned 16. I watched a movie, there was sex in it and then i started doing it. i just thought of it as nothing significant. i heard that this was called masturbation and after reading at wikipedia. i am disgusted with myself. I am a christian and stayed away from girls and porn and then suddenly got into it. Now i am scared to ask girls out because of my past. I want to stop it all now. In my college boys talk about girls and porn, is it possible that some of them do it as well?? i don't know what to do? i just want to end my life and have another chance to start again. i read that it's just as worse as having s e x. someone please tell me, i am really disgusted with myself. does anyone else here do it? will i be condemned to hell? will i ever be able to have a girl friend or wife or normal life? i am depressed now. someone please advise me, i would really appreciate it, man. bye, got deleted, writing again.}

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Ttssattsr, Mon 27 Apr 2009, 14:04, archived)

First you gotta understand that overall ... it is a selfish act.

You only benefit yourself and nobody else by masterbating (masturbating). Sex is meant for 2 people not one. That is the natural way of life. Whenever you masterbate, your only having sex by yourself.

Secondly, do you ever masterbate w/out fantasizing? Usually masterbation (masturbation) accompanies fantasizing. They both compliment each other and make the experience more joyful. I would say fantasizing precedes masterbation (masturbation). Guys usually get in the mood by fantasizing about a hot lady. Once the fantasizing arouses the guy, the guy usually wants more pleasure and options to masterbates to create an orgasm for him.

I rarely seen a situation where a person does not fantasize while masterbating (masturbating).

That my friend is the answer to your question. If somehow you can stop fantasizing about hot models/actress/ladies, you will be less aroused. And if you aren't aroused ... why should you masterbate?

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gronkpan https://twitter.com/VomitingLarry, Mon 27 Apr 2009, 14:07, archived)

And if you aren't aroused ... why should you masterbate?

INTERESTING.

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Ttssattsr, Mon 27 Apr 2009, 14:11, archived)

Dude...I beat off like nine times a day. It's cool.

(k3b/-\b Peace man., Mon 27 Apr 2009, 14:13, archived)

i am happily married and masturbat all the time also..been for years..i think my wife can notice when i do because i cant hold an errection as long and when i *** its not alot of semen. i feel horrible after i do this

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gronkpan https://twitter.com/VomitingLarry, Mon 27 Apr 2009, 14:14, archived)

Rather the opposite for me.

I can keep going longer.

(waxdart hello., Mon 27 Apr 2009, 14:17, archived)

Jesus loves those that have a good wank.

The Lord created you in his image. The lord is a wanker.
The make-believe sky daddy watches you whilst you wank. He is a gay wanker.
Some will say to you, that you will burn in hell for all eternity for wanking. Ask of them, what part of infinite eternity is this bit now?
I like a bit more 100% in my eternity.

(waxdart hello., Mon 27 Apr 2009, 14:13, archived)