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give in hating yourself as well, then.

meta.

give up on the idea that you have to live up to anyone else's expectations.

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Moon Girl Technologies horrendous beanbag, Tue 19 Jan 2010, 21:32, archived)

I don't live up to anyones expectations

But that's not the problem

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HappyToast Groat froth, Tue 19 Jan 2010, 21:38, archived)

what's up, then?

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Moon Girl Technologies horrendous beanbag, Tue 19 Jan 2010, 21:41, archived)

job, health of loved ones, money and inability to sleep will do for starters

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HappyToast Groat froth, Tue 19 Jan 2010, 21:54, archived)

well the last one is no doubt caused by all the others,

but the second one is the only one that's really worth caring about.

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Moon Girl Technologies horrendous beanbag, Tue 19 Jan 2010, 21:57, archived)

well, i could see how the others could exacerbate it

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spacefish bong!, Tue 19 Jan 2010, 22:04, archived)

Well

I can tick off 2 out of those 4 (My mum has breast cancer, dad fell over in the snow and and broke his wrist, mother-in-law is signed off work with depression - and I don't sleep properly at the best of times, less so at the moment.)

However, my GP was very helpful with the insomnia - and it's the easiest one of the 4 to tackle. Once you've got some decent sleep behind you, it's a lot easier to stay strong for your loved ones.

Work can be a complete arse, and if you've got problems elsewhere it doesn't make work any easier. If you can change job, do (toolboxes have wheels for a reason). If you can't, then try to remember it's only 8 hours a day - live for the other 16.

Look after yourself, your drawing is ace, and I for one would miss it. ;-)

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