Well, you obviously don't. You're making huge assumptions of what it means to be introverted.
Do some research and maybe not jump to uniformed stereotypes. Introversion is not as clear cut and simple as you appear to think it is.
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Do some research and maybe not jump to uniformed stereotypes. Introversion is not as clear cut and simple as you appear to think it is.
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For instance, some introverted people can seem quite outgoing when they're typing words onto the internet.
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I think introversion is another pointless label people like to give themselves, of which there are plenty
a person might have a peer group where because they've made several faux pas, they're scared of interacting with again. They might not value the social interaction, because they find it dull and would prefer to be doing something else. both these things might depend on their peer group, their alternatives, and how they're feeling when they make the decision, and a whole bunch of other conditional changeable factors.
TLDR: Behaviour is complex, labels aren't
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a person might have a peer group where because they've made several faux pas, they're scared of interacting with again. They might not value the social interaction, because they find it dull and would prefer to be doing something else. both these things might depend on their peer group, their alternatives, and how they're feeling when they make the decision, and a whole bunch of other conditional changeable factors.
TLDR: Behaviour is complex, labels aren't
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Nobody has time for nuance, it's convenient to put everyone else into boxes
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I think self identifying as something seems to hold a lot of attraction,
because it neatly absolves people for their personal behaviour and decisions by claiming it's caused by some dubious self diagnosed condition. Maybe someone has some learning difficulty like ASD that makes interaction dfficult. But maybe someone never bother to cultivate a personality, lacks empathy or interest in other people or is cruel, and when they socialised they find nobody likes them, so they stop going out and start claiming, "oh I must be an introvert" because it makes them feel better, it's just their nature. And if you think that's a rant, don't get me started on kids getting diagnosed with ADHD
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because it neatly absolves people for their personal behaviour and decisions by claiming it's caused by some dubious self diagnosed condition. Maybe someone has some learning difficulty like ASD that makes interaction dfficult. But maybe someone never bother to cultivate a personality, lacks empathy or interest in other people or is cruel, and when they socialised they find nobody likes them, so they stop going out and start claiming, "oh I must be an introvert" because it makes them feel better, it's just their nature. And if you think that's a rant, don't get me started on kids getting diagnosed with ADHD
( , Sat 3 Dec 2022, 10:46, Share, Reply)
So...
pointing people to their own post, so they then read their own post back to themselves, is being a dick?
Not sure of your message here.
( , Sat 3 Dec 2022, 15:47, Share, Reply)
pointing people to their own post, so they then read their own post back to themselves, is being a dick?
Not sure of your message here.
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