The whole thing is terrible
The shoe on the head thig was awful as were the suicide requests. Just because someone is offering some sort of sexual act doesn't make them any less of a person. You can find someone sexually attractive and even want to do inexplicable things to their body and still respect them. She obviously wasn't happy but they had no respect for her feelings. Sometimes I get really angry with feminists saying men have no respect for women but when stuff like this occurs how can anyone blame them.
Awful stuff, the entire human race should be wiped out.
(, Sat 4 Aug 2012, 15:50, Reply)
In all fairness "pay me $150 to look at my tits" isn't exactly respectful to her audience either
Both sides get exploited in that kind of transaction.
I'm saying that as a general thing here, not trying to stick up for the cunts in that video (not trying to stick up for her either really, she needs to stop blaming everything around her and take some responsibility).
(
gronkpan @vomitinglarry.bsky.social, Sat 4 Aug 2012, 16:08,
Reply)
I think
you pretty much hit the nail on the head there.
(
TheSundaeLunch I'm a fucking shrub, alright?, Sat 4 Aug 2012, 16:36,
Reply)
That's bullshit I'm afraid
It's a flat out transaction. Give me money and you get what you want, it is absolutely respectful of both sides.Up front and honest.
You don't want to see tits don't pay the money, it doesn't mean you then have the right to ask her to commit suicide or make light of her obviously having a breakdown by saying you'll pay her to put a shoe on her head.
I would imagine there are people in all sorts of situations that do the same job and deal with it in different ways. She was obviously not dealing with it very well at that point and you would have thought it might take a special kind of cunt not to recognise that. Apparently not though, apparently it seems it was the norm.
Just because someone decides to "cheapen" themselves in your eyes doesn't then give you the right to try and make them feel cheap.
She did nothing to deserve any of that and if you think she did I suggest you need to think about your attitudes towards, possibly only women, but other people.
(, Sat 4 Aug 2012, 17:20, Reply)
When I'm saying you, I mean the collective you
As in "you fucking arseholes" not you personally
(, Sat 4 Aug 2012, 17:28, Reply)
^
I'm with you on this.
Whatever your moral stance is on a person's lifestyle or area of employment, and regardless of whether you think she might have been acting up for sympathy, no one should speak to another person like that.
(, Sat 4 Aug 2012, 17:32, Reply)
You are correct
but in the real world, people do. If you can't handle it, then you picked the wrong job. I have had terrible insults levelled at me for daring to go on stage and trying to entertain people; but I needed the money and usually enjoyed myself. I could have got a job in a shop instead.
(
TheSundaeLunch I'm a fucking shrub, alright?, Sat 4 Aug 2012, 17:45,
Reply)
Same here I'm a female busdriver it's a hard and difficult job at times
and a minority of passengers can be real pricks at times, but screaming and shouting at them is just not done, even though I've often felt like pulling the bus over and saying "You know what you bunch of ungrateful wankers, you fucking drive the bus!"
(
maiden is filmed before a live studio audience, Sat 4 Aug 2012, 17:49,
Reply)
But it is also an occupational hazard
People 'assume' sex workers and strippers, lapdancers etc are whores that do anything all the time for money,can just be treated like meat. Working in McDonalds you 'expect' to be called shit boy, or Jonny No Stars, doesnt mean you should or it is right just that you do and will. You can either stick in that line of work or you cant and leave. If she chooses to do this and knows how the minority will treat her for doing so, then she shouldnt be all worked up about what would inevitably happen. I dont agree with anything said on it and dont like it, but life is life and people can be cunts.
(, Sat 4 Aug 2012, 17:48, Reply)
(partly in response to TheSundaeLunch's comment above as well)
Judging from the relentless attitude of the people in the video, it clearly is an occupational hazard. I wonder if it perhaps highlights a problem with the growing popularity of these webcam sites and the way the technology allows just about anyone to use it as a way of making money. I would imagine you get a lot of people working on them have not always had the experience of working in that industry (and perhaps don't even think of it as part of the sex industry), but figure they would be able to give it a go and end up getting burnt like in that video.
Not sure if I explained that very clearly.
(, Sat 4 Aug 2012, 17:58, Reply)
You explain it well.
Unlike brothels or live sex shows in a theatre there is usually bouncers to deal with the trash low-lifes, however, any shit can use the webcam sex shows so there is no filtering out the trash.
(
maiden is filmed before a live studio audience, Sat 4 Aug 2012, 18:03,
Reply)
The point is it's not her so much as it's the type of people who use this service.
There is going to be a high level of low-lifes and women haters who pay to wank off at women on the internet. Does she really think that screaming and shouting is going to get her sympathy from these people?It's just a free freak show to them they'll whoop it up.
If she's feeling like that she should turn her feed off and do something to chill.
(
maiden is filmed before a live studio audience, Sat 4 Aug 2012, 17:54,
Reply)
Lambrini, Malteasers and a chick flick?
(
Fadgebadger Sweaty sumo wanks for everyone!, Sat 4 Aug 2012, 18:01,
Reply)
Hey if it gets her chilled why not.
For me it would be Vodka, Maltesers and a damn good Sci-fi or Action film. I hate chick-flicks.
(
maiden is filmed before a live studio audience, Sat 4 Aug 2012, 18:04,
Reply)
This
Just because someone makes questionable decisions or is even outright stupid doesn't diminish your own personal moral responsibility to treat people as human beings.
(
simbosan is too tired, Sat 4 Aug 2012, 18:08,
Reply)