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Freddy Woo writes, "My wife thinks calling the front room a lounge is common. Worse, a friend of hers recently admonished her daughter for calling a toilet, a toilet. Lavatory darling. It's lavatory."

My own mother refused to let me use the word 'oblong' instead of 'rectangle'. Which is just odd, to be honest.

What stuff do you think is common?

(, Thu 16 Oct 2008, 16:06)
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You when a bit loon in some of your replies
where you're assinging races roles. ie educated well spoken black person is behaving like a white person...wich reduces down to

black = thug
white = nice person
(, Fri 17 Oct 2008, 14:52, 2 replies)
^^ *rolls eyes*
Repeats earlier post.




@Loon
Don't take to heart some random strangers comments about something you posted that they ranted about without bothering to check what it was you actually meant.

They are just lazy and dull people.
( Big-girl's-blouse is a dirty old woman on..........................., Fri 17 Oct 2008, 14:23, Delete, Edit, Reply, I like this!)
(, Fri 17 Oct 2008, 15:04, closed)
Nope.
I was using that as a kind of shorthand, which is what didn't translate well. In America, blacks tend to hold themselves very much separate from whites, even the more educated middle-class blacks. There's an entire other culture here that mostly falls along racial lines.

People from outside the US are a different case. The UK news guy from Trinidad is no more a part of American ghetto culture than I am. Ditto on the people from Trinidad I've known here- they're every bit as puzzled by American black kids as I am, and tend to identify with whites.

What's really interesting to me is the schism within the black culture that you can see by looking up the controversy regarding Bill Cosby. He put it very strongly and eloquently, and showed in sharp relief the problems that are now causing clashes between the young black hiphop culture and the rest of society. Coming from Cosby in particular it's interesting, as he was one of the people at the front of the Civil Rights movement back in the 60s and was extremely outspoken at that time as well.

Anyway... go back and read the above post, and if it still doesn't make sense to you, then I give up.
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