"She is under his control"
Isn't that what they call "topping from the bottom"? I'd say surrendering that control to her and enduring her desires is the key - He suffers because she wants it. What should a good sub strive to do? Push his boundaries beyond his perceived limits for Her satisfaction, not his own.

Ah fuck it, you are dead on, it's hard to explain all this stuff, I say don't analyse it, just enjoy!

(And anyway when she takes the clamp off, it hurts a hell of a lot more than when it went on!)
(Rsoles, Mon 26 Oct 2009, 20:05, Reply)